In France, you'll see loads of people hanging around the streets, parks, cafes, the river or the ports (depending on the city). Blend in, get an afternoon coffee or have a drink at a cafe, grab a bottle of wine (don't forget your cork screw and paper cups) and hang out along the river or a park. Don't talk/think about work; instead get to know your friends by asking them tons of questions and people watch, reflect or read a book. Relax..